![]() ![]() ![]() I appreciate the effort that went in to this photo shoot, but it is terribly incorrect with the gloves on while drinking tea. and must have been difficult for a professional photographer to light. The women look beautiful, the flowers, the foods. The caption from my friend reads, "I'm speechless." I cropped this photo as it had a brand name and the photographer's name on it as well. She looks like she'd be a blast to hang out for an afternoon with, as she has an infectious smile! But once again, here we have two faux pas all in one photo Gloved hand with the tea cup and the affectation of the "pinky" finger pointing up. I have no idea who this is, as someone sent it to me. This small cup makes me immediately think "demitasse," however it also makes me think, "Wow! That Lady Mary has large hands!" Both a cigarette and a drink in gloved hands. It's too, too much! Two faux pas for the price of one. More photos follow of gloved ones drinking in period films and attempts at period photos, all in that attempt to add what "passes for class." More "Glove Etiquette" - Don’t eat, drink, or smoke with gloves on.ĭon’t wear jewelry over gloves, with the exception of bracelets.ĭon’t make a habit of carrying your gloves. At dinner, she suggests surreptitiously sitting on them, but please don’t tell anyone she said so. If you cannot cram your gloves into your tiny evening bag, where we hope there is no makeup on the loose, you must hold them with your free hand when eating or drinking while you are standing. This was a good argument against drinking when dancing. At dinner, she suggests surreptitiously sitting on them, but please don’t tell anyone she said so.You are correct that gloves are worn during dancing, but they had to be removed before touching any refreshments. You might reasonably point out that ball dresses unaccountably lack pockets, and are cunningly constructed so that gloves placed on them when the wearer is seated slip off the lap, thus requiring the wearer’s unfortunate dinner partner to crawl under the table to fetch them. It would serve Miss Manners right if, after obeying her strict command to remove your gloves, you handed them to her. In real life, it was always considered crude, not to mention yucky, but in every period film, television show, play and opera, it is evidently intended to add a touch of what passes for “class.” Miss Manners pities the laborers who were taxed with cleaning those gloves afterward.You are correct that gloves are worn during dancing, but they had to be removed before touching any refreshments. GENTLE READER: The only place where it seems to be traditional for ladies to eat or drink with gloved hands is in costume dramas. ![]() My response? "The gloves on Downton? I'll let Miss Manners answer that one. This was an etiquette faux pas I had noticed several times, but ignored, as they work so hard on all of the little details on that show to keep it historically accurate.Īdd to that the fact that some more, shall we say "creatively thinking" etiquette consultants, are advising that wearing gloves is just fine and dandy while drinking, and some women are terribly confused.Īlarm bells rang in my head when I saw Lady Edith sitting at the table with gloved hands and a glass of champagne beside her, but I shut them all down, in order to hear the scintillating dialogue. It was from a friend, former trainee and current etiquette instructor, Bernadette Petrotta of the Polite Society School of Etiquette. That was a query I received via email the other day. "Why are the women in Downton Abbey wearing gloves when they are drinking?" ![]()
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